“You’re Too Sensitive” Or Are You Just Aware? October 26, 2025 Has anyone ever told you, “You’re too sensitive”? What I want you to know is that what they’re really saying is, “Your feelings make me uncomfortable.” While that may be true, there may still be an impact...
Why keeping score keeps you stuck… October 19, 2025 Do you ever catch yourself keeping score in your relationship? Maybe it sounds like this: “I cooked dinner three times this week — the least you could do is clean the kitchen.” “I’m the one always checking in....
When ‘playing fair’ feels impossible in communication October 12, 2024 Have you ever tried to have a calm, honest conversation with your partner, but it feels like you’re talking to a brick wall? You bring something up and they shut down or walk away. You...
Ever heard yourself say, “She/He triggered me!” Those were the exact words podcast host Julie Fairfurst said to me when I joined her show to talk about transforming conflict. 🎧 Watch the Podcast Clip Here We were deep into a real, honest conversation about how...
Why It’s Important to Embrace Your Judgments September 28, 2025 So, your partner is late, says something unkind, or forgets to do that thing they promised they’d do and you express that you are upset. And they reply, “It’s not a big deal, I didn’t...
