When you get blamed September 14, 2025 In last week’s blog, I shared about a recent fight Kim and I had because he blamed me for something — and I went completely bananas. 🤯 This week, I want to take you deeper into what really happens beneath the surface when you get...
When “letting it go” costs you connection September 7, 2025 How many times have you heard the advice: “Just let it go. Pick your battles.” At first glance, it sounds wise. Why stir up conflict over something so small? It’s not a big deal! Just let it go,...
Why It’s Important to Embrace Your Judgments August 31, 2025 No one taught us how to navigate conflict. When I was a kid, conflict in my family looked like silence, avoidance, and holding things in. My husband, Kim, grew up learning to avoid conflict too — changing...
Are you mankeeping? August 10, 2025 When You’re the One Holding It All: Unpacking Mankeeping in Modern Marriage I’ve seen this dynamic in countless relationships I’ve coached—and I’ve lived it in my own marriage. After 40+ years of pouring himself into a career, my...
You’re not failing– you’re just exhausted: Reclaim your sovereignty and your freedom June 29, 2025 Raise your hand if you’ve ever felt like you’re not doing enough. 🙋🏻♀️ That quiet, persistent hum of anxiety whispering: “You should be working harder…...
