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How Relationally Responsible Are You?

How Relationally Responsible Are You?

Relational Responsibility: Why our relationships – and our world – depend on it January 4, 2026 I don’t always get what I want from my relationships. Even if I don’t always get it right, I am deeply devoted to creating the conditions for what I want to experience...
Don’t just ‘get over it’.

Don’t just ‘get over it’.

Why It’s Important to Embrace Your Judgments September 28, 2025 So, your partner is late, says something unkind, or forgets to do that thing they promised they’d do and you express that you are upset. And they reply, “It’s not a big deal, I didn’t...
Are You Protecting or Connecting?

Are You Protecting or Connecting?

Are you protecting yourself or connecting with your partner? September 21, 2025 When your partner says:  “You’re too sensitive! You’re  overreacting! You make everything a big deal!” Have you ever noticed how quickly you go into protection mode when you feel judged or...
When you get blamed

When you get blamed

When you get blamed September 14, 2025 In last week’s blog, I shared about a recent fight Kim and I had because he blamed me for something — and I went completely bananas. 🤯 This week, I want to take you deeper into what really happens beneath the surface when you get...
Can anxiety bring you closer?

Can anxiety bring you closer?

Does the Morning Rush Ruin More Than Your Morning? August 24, 2025 I remember how stressful it felt getting my kids out the door for school when they were young and how it impacted me and my husband. Honestly as I think back it was easier when they were little than...