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I didn’t want to write this…

I didn’t want to write this…

I didn’t want to write this… November 2, 2025 I really didn’t want to write this blog. Actually, I didn’t want to do much of anything this morning. Not write. Not think. Not DO. And it’s all because of  Wanda — my “I-don’t-wanna” persona. She’s the part of...
You’re not too sensitive, you’re attuned

You’re not too sensitive, you’re attuned

“You’re Too Sensitive” Or Are You Just Aware? October 26, 2025 Has anyone ever told you, “You’re too sensitive”? What I want you to know is that what they’re really saying is, “Your feelings make me uncomfortable.” While that may be true, there may still be an impact...
Why keeping score keeps you stuck

Why keeping score keeps you stuck

Why keeping score keeps you stuck… October 19, 2025 Do you ever catch yourself keeping score in your relationship? Maybe it sounds like this:  “I cooked dinner three times this week — the least you could do is clean the kitchen.” “I’m the one always checking in....
Don’t just ‘get over it’.

Don’t just ‘get over it’.

Why It’s Important to Embrace Your Judgments September 28, 2025 So, your partner is late, says something unkind, or forgets to do that thing they promised they’d do and you express that you are upset. And they reply, “It’s not a big deal, I didn’t...
Are You Protecting or Connecting?

Are You Protecting or Connecting?

Are you protecting yourself or connecting with your partner? September 21, 2025 When your partner says:  “You’re too sensitive! You’re  overreacting! You make everything a big deal!” Have you ever noticed how quickly you go into protection mode when you feel judged or...