Is your ‘yes’ costing you? š¤
October 6, 2024
I was working on a deadline when the phone rangāit was my daughter, and I dropped everything to talk with her, which impacted my progress. āļø
Then, the groomer called to say the dog was ready three hours earlier than expected, so I dropped everything to pick her up to avoid stressing her out. š¶
Later, my husband called, needing help with a question, and I dropped the project I was working on to help him. šāāļø
And when my youngest daughter needed support in making a decision, once again, I dropped my tasks to talk it through with her. š¤
By the end of the day, I was completely stressedāalmost missed my deadline, lost precious time to traffic, and was late to my lunch meetingāall in the name of caring for everyone elseās needs but my own.
Again. š©
Sound familiar?
Iām guessing youāve done the same. š¤·š¼āāļø
As women, weāve been conditioned to drop everything to care for the people we love, but the truth is, we often end up suffering because of it. We push our needs aside, leaving us stressed, exhausted, and overwhelmed.
The trouble is, this stress doesnāt just affect your well-beingāit impacts your relationships, too.
This is how we unintentionally create drama in our lives.Ā
We take on too much, over-function, and then blame others for the stress weāve allowed to build.Ā
And while we love our families and care deeply about them, over-functioning drains us and keeps us stuck in a cycle of frustration and overwhelm.
The unfortunate result?Ā
We unconsciously create conflict and disconnection from the people we love the most.
When we override our boundaries, we set our relationships up for resentment and dramaāno fun for anyone.
So, why do we do it? Thatās the million-dollar question!
This is exactly what I help you understand in my online course, Drop the Drama.
In my 8-week self-guided course, youāll learn:
Why you say yes when you should say no.
How to discern when you’re choosing from love vs. fear.
How to hold and honor your boundaries, even if it disappoints the people you love.
The difference between being empowered and disempowered.
And so much more. šš¼
I created this course to help you deepen your self-awareness, so you can feel more empowered and create a life you love, with stress-free, fulfilling relationships.
The truth is, when you become more self-aware and get radically honest with yourself, youāll realize how much stress and disconnection youāve unconsciously created by disconnecting from your truest self. From there, you can shift into a more authentically empowered place where true connection is available to you.
I know you want more of that! Register today for more joy and less dramaādonāt waste another minute over-functioning!
Iāll see you there!
in trust and gratitude,
Annmarie Chereso
Author, Speaker, Coach, & Meditation Teacher
Annmarie has created a profound learning experience. She shares vulnerably and authenticity, and generously from her own life and her laser-sharp coaching creates an ideal learning environment. I would highly recommend Annmarie for anyone who wants to deepen your understanding of yourself and enhance your relationship with your kids and just about everyone else in your life.’
MEAGAN SMITH HRLE